March, 2010

Wednesday, March 31st, 2010

Raising a child with allergies

My mom, brother and I are all lactose and gluten intolerant. The difference it has made in our lives has been remarkable.

On the suggestion of our homeopath I decided to keep my children off both gluten and lactose for the first year of their lives. It was not always easy as we had to find lactose free formulas which are generally more expensive than the normal ones. We also avoided ready-made baby food as much as we could for home-made meals.

We introduced lactose before gluten in things like yoghurt and cheese. Cameron had no reaction to either gluten or lactose but Kiaras reacted to both, so we still keep her off both to a large extent.

So what is gluten and lactose? And what does it mean to be gluten and lactose intolerant?

Gluten is

  1. The mixture of proteins, including gliadins and glutelins, found in wheat grains, which are not soluble in water and which give wheat dough its elastic texture.
  2. Any of the prolamins found in cereal grains, especially the prolamins in wheat, rye, barley, and possibly oats, that cause digestive disorders such as celiac disease.

Lactose is

  1. A disaccharide, C12H22O11, found in milk, that may be hydrolyzed to yield glucose and galactose.
  2. A white crystalline substance obtained from whey and used in infant foods, bakery products, confections, and pharmaceuticals as a diluent and excipient. Also called milk sugar.

Celiac disease is a disease of the digestive system that damages the small intestine and interferes with the absorption of nutrients from food.

Lactose intolerance refers to the inability of the body to digest lactose.

Dealing with a baby with an intolerance to these products is easier than dealing with a toddler or older child. Once they start attending school and/or parties it does become more challenging. Parties pose the greatest challenge as birthday cakes, cup cakes, ice cream and even cheese curls are a no-no. Schools are a little easier to manage as most schools that serve meals are willing to leave out ingredients or will allow you to provide meals/snacks your child can have.

It has become a way of life for Kiara so for the most part she won’t accept things she can’t eat or will tell the person she can’t eat it. When she does have something she is intolerant to the reaction can sometimes be instant. If she has ice cream, her chest closes almost immediately, her nose will start running and she has often started scratching her skin asking me to take it out. I have often had the same reaction when I have eaten something I shouldn’t have. If it is lactose she has had it is guaranteed that she will have tonsillitis or an ear infection within 2 days of eating it.

Some of the symptoms she experiences

  • Coughing
  • Running nose
  • Wheezing chest
  • Itchy skin
  • Irritability
  • Sore throat
  • Low blood pressure
  • Ear infection and tonsillitis

It is also a challenge to find products that we can eat that taste nice. A lot of shops do now stock a range of gluten free products but you need to still check the ingredients and your reaction. Buckwheat and millet are gluten free but I react badly to both of them – worse than my reaction to normal bread. These products are also expensive and often tasteless or not very nice.

A few of the products we have found that have worked for us

  • Woolworths rice cakes (not the organic ones)
  • Woolworths rice milk (it is a sweet milk so not suitable for sauces)
  • Rice noodles (from the various the Chinese supermarkets)
  • Sweet William Dairy Free Rice Crackle Chocolate Bar from Dischem is gluten, nut and dairy free
  • Natures Choice Rice Flour (best for baking)
  • Rinas Muffins – found at the Pretoria Farmers Market. Her muffins are wheat free as she uses rye flour and cremora which do contain traces of gluten. You can contact her on amvw@webmail.co.za
  • Maizena can be used to thicken sauces as well as for baking.

A few items that contain lactose and gluten that you may not have known

  • Tab (lactose)
  • Smarties (gluten)
  • Bacon (gluten)
  • Oats (gluten)
  • Liqourice All Sorts (gluten)
  • Tomato Sauce (gluten) – All Gold does not but most of the others do.

For recipes that contain ingredients found in South Africa I use ‘South African cookbook for allergies and food intolerance by Hilda Lategan’

Definitions from Answers.com

Monday, March 29th, 2010

The first 6 weeks

The first 6 weeks after your baby is born is probably the hardest time. You will feel overwhelmed and often a little scared but the good news is it gets easier :)

Remember these tips and you will be just fine!

  • Accept help. If your mother/friends offer to watch baby while you bath/have a nap – accept it.
  • Sleep when baby sleeps. I never managed to get this right with my first child but with the second one as soon as she shut her eyes I would nap with her.
  • Don’t stress about the small things – like changing or cleaning orwashing. When you can do it, do it.
  • Your newborn will not break nor will she come to any harm if she cries.
  • Get out of the house! Meet a friend for coffee. Go walk around PnP. Just make sure you get out of the house for a bit.
  • If you don’t want visitors simply say no. As nice as it is to have people come and visit sometimes it is too much.
  • Get help. Even if you get a domestic working in once a week you need help. Someone just to do the ironing/cleaning etc.
  • Switch off your phone/computer. Unnecessary phone calls just create additional stress.
  • Be flexible. Your baby may not have been listening the day you announced she will sleep 6 hours in her own room or will breastfeed exclusively for 6 months. So be open to change the plan a little.
  • Make sure you eat and drink enough. It’s easy to forget to do this in those early days and it is then that you need it the most.
  • Let your partner help. Even if you feel he is doing it wrong – leave him. He has to learn. Go sit and watch some TV and leave the two of them to figure it out.

The most important thing to remember is to enjoy your baby :)

Thursday, March 18th, 2010

Due date – what to expect

Giving birth is often glamourised in the media. One moment you are screaming in pain and the next minute your beautiful pink clothed baby is being handed to you. It all appears rather simple and tidy.

The reality is it is not always that simple, easy or tidy.

A few of the things I learnt about what to expect when you go in to have your baby (from a caesar point of view)

  • You will be able to feel them working on you. It’s not sore or uncomfortable but you will feel movement.
  • When baby comes out, she is not pretty and pink and cute. She will be covered in vernix.
  • You will be separated from baby while they sew you back up and take you to recovery.
  • You will be sore. Take the pain meds.
  • Chances are strong that baby will scream – a lot.
  • They will encourage you to feed as soon as possible. Try. You newborn is more than likely not going to latch perfectly and suck like a champion. Be patient.
  • Let the nurses help. You are in the hospital for 3 days so let them help as much as they are willing to.
  • Bathing a screaming newborn is frightening. Let the nurses help you. And if you wipe baby down for a few days thats also ok :)
  • Baby blues normally arrive on day 3. You will cry, feel inadequate, feel overwhelmed and cry some more.

There are also a few emotions you really can never be prepared for.

  • You will feel love like you have never ever felt before.
  • You will feel pride like you have never felt before.
  • You will feel a protectiveness that you have never felt before. (When your baby has their first set of injections you will imagine ways to kill the nurse)
  • You will feel an intense contentedness.

No matter how much you read or ask about the day you give birth, nothing really prepares you for what happens that day. It is truely one of the greatest things you will ever experience.

Making the decision to have a child is momentous.  It is to decide forever to have your heart go walking around outside your body.  ~Elizabeth Stone

Wednesday, March 10th, 2010

Photo Shoot Competition

Our first competition at Journey2Joy starts off with a photo shoot from Colleen!

Colleen has offered a maternity, newborn or family shoot – depending on what your needs are.

If you are pregnant and do the maternity shoot you will receive a newborn shoot with Colleen at a discounted price.

Journey2Joy will also give the winner a special baby gro and blanket!

So what do you need to do? Any of the following will get you an entry – do all 5 and you will gain 5 entries!

  1. Join our Facebook page
  2. Leave a comment on the facebook page
  3. Follow us on twitter
  4. Tweet about it
  5. Leave a comment on this post.

Rules

  1. Competition is unfortunately only open to Gauteng residents as Colleen is based in Joburg.
  2. The competition ends on the 31st of March 2010
Monday, March 8th, 2010

Pregnancy Pamper

Pregnancy takes a huge toll on your body. Your hormones are all over the place. You are tired a lot and there never seems to be enough time in the day to get all the things organised.

It doesn’t get much easier after baby arrives which is why having a mini pamper session before you give birth is the perfect way to relax and re-charge.

Tranquil Sanctuary offers a lovely “Mom To Be” package where you receive a facial, massage, manicure and pedicure. For three hours you are pampered and forced to relax.

If you would like to take a friend and spend the day at a spa then Hakunamatata offers a Pregnancy Package which includes 3 hours of treatments and lunch or breakfast.

Both packages are reasonable priced and well worth it.

So off you go and book now!

  • Swagger Products
  • La Coco C
  • Baby Beanz
  • Enchanted Charms
  • Tranquil Body Treats
  • Crafty Fox
  • Lime Green Bean
  • Heavenly Handmade
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